I launched my blog, Assume Love: How to have a happier marriage without waiting for your spouse to change, in 2006. I attended marriage education conferences and got myself certified to teach two marriage preparation programs. I taught twice a month teleworkshops, spoke to corporate trainers about managing married people and offer a workshop for married people about how to make life as a twosome a lot easier. In 2020, I published the first two books in the Enjoy Being Married journals set: Agreed: A Journal to Bring Joy to Any Marriage with Too Many Disagreements and Loved: A Journal to Bring Joy to Any Marriage with Dashed Expectations and Unmet Needs. (Amazon would like me to tell you that as an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases when you use my links to the Amazon site, which is the only place my books are sold.) You can also find my work on Quora.